![]() ![]() You avoid being responsible for your thoughts and feelings. You try to say someone else is responsible for what happened to you instead of yourself. ![]() The drive-through coffee shop gets your order wrong, and then you think that the rest of your day will be a disaster. ![]() You automatically anticipate the worst without facts that the worse will happen. For example, you hear that an evening out with friends is canceled, and you assume that the change in plans is because no one wanted to be around you. When something bad occurs, you automatically blame yourself. That evening, you focus only on your plan to do even more tasks and forget about the compliments you received. You completed your tasks ahead of time and were complimented for doing a speedy and thorough job. For example, you had a great day at work. You magnify the negative aspects of a situation and filter out all the positive ones. Not sure if your self-talk is positive or negative? Some common forms of negative self-talk include: ![]()
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